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..A message from women to women
*As the days progress I can't help but notice how much of a feminist I am becoming. Through my articulations and my daily thoughts. I imagine that my common viewers are middle aged women, I even suspect some young ladies are tuned in. Some of my thoughts may seem scattered or voguer, but I'd just like to say these are my thoughts and the way you perceive them are quite frankly non of my damn concern.*
The perception of a women is beyond what a mans mind could ever intake. I would like you to know you are far more important than any one's misconception of you. As a women, You should feel free and accepted. If you've never felt accepted know that you're accepted in this space. You don't have to be as strong as me, because If you can't meet this capacity I can be strong for you. I think to often we are to divided. Why when I smile and speak to another black women, she feels interrupted? Why not reunite? When I see something I like, I ACKNOWLEDGE IT, and the least you can do is be eagerly accepting of my compliment. When people respond dry, I am damn near offended! Correct me if i'm wrong but their is nothing better than a compliment from another sister. Of course, I wont fault you for being angry because the weight of life can weigh us down but when you receive a blessing please be open handed when receiving. I would just like to see us more happy and united. We are all trying to be better and wiser. If no one understands you, I do! Thats as far as ill get into that..
It just hit me that me being so "woke" about men has lead me to be very single since as long as I can remember. Think about it, if you're a woman who has been through several different LONG relationships didn't you put a lot into a man to find out things were not really what you thought? Yeah, I'm good on all that. I believe every woman should follow what she wants and pleasure her self, but until it hurts her I no longer agree. The man can not define you but inspire you as an individual. We often try to be a mans refugee from his last women or be his refugee from his hard life. His sex toy or his listening ear. I disagree, we should go in wanting to be his peace. AFTER, he has learned to heal him self. Bring him peace after he has done all his forgiveness and is ready to be with someone who is commonly grounded. Do not go in being captain rescue, who is going to save you when you need to be rescued? To not be in this situation I would strongly suggest you pray strongly before getting deeply with any man and know that he is completely ready to start a genuine foundation of love with you. Intentions should be established very early or no expectations should be put on at all. Now this is not for the women who are having sex because they want too, That is completely up to you. But do not let sex be your get away from the real world, because I'll be the first to tell you after you get to your peak your personal issues will still be there pouring down. Do not carry this sad spirit around and transmit it to different men. Casual sex is only accepted when you're completely mentally ready. Most women between the ages of 17-21 are not mentally compatible to casually have sex with different men, no strings attached, and be completely fine with it. Even the older women who have sex with different men are not healed, while things may look very easy on the outside they may be fighting demons. I am a strong believer that their are greater aspects that we serve than a sex toy. Do not let your temple be open for the world. You may need to do some mental healing.
Apart of me believes that this is why I am choosing to remain a virgin. For years I was not mentally ready to have sex with any one because I didn't love myself. People don't understand how important self love is when having sex or being in a relationship. You can not expect someone to love and respect your body when you do not even show yourself that same respect. I was always conservative and I knew I was one of a kind. As a young girl I had this attitude of being one of a kind. While in high school, everyone made it seem like being in a sexual relationship was a necessity. WRONG, move at your own pace. (Most of them regret giving it up to a young noodle head.)If you're practicing abstinence, find peace with in that. If you're in a relationship with a guy and you feel like you all are just having sex and he isn't feeding your spirit. VOICE this to him and I'm sure he will understand. If he can not understand that sex isn't the only thing that satisfies your body and that you are more than that, He is a young boy. Drop him sis, he has got some growing up to do.
There are so many different things I could say about this conversation but the biggest point I want to make is to put your self first and to be a strong women.
The perception of a women is beyond what a mans mind could ever intake. I would like you to know you are far more important than any one's misconception of you. As a women, You should feel free and accepted. If you've never felt accepted know that you're accepted in this space. You don't have to be as strong as me, because If you can't meet this capacity I can be strong for you. I think to often we are to divided. Why when I smile and speak to another black women, she feels interrupted? Why not reunite? When I see something I like, I ACKNOWLEDGE IT, and the least you can do is be eagerly accepting of my compliment. When people respond dry, I am damn near offended! Correct me if i'm wrong but their is nothing better than a compliment from another sister. Of course, I wont fault you for being angry because the weight of life can weigh us down but when you receive a blessing please be open handed when receiving. I would just like to see us more happy and united. We are all trying to be better and wiser. If no one understands you, I do! Thats as far as ill get into that..
It just hit me that me being so "woke" about men has lead me to be very single since as long as I can remember. Think about it, if you're a woman who has been through several different LONG relationships didn't you put a lot into a man to find out things were not really what you thought? Yeah, I'm good on all that. I believe every woman should follow what she wants and pleasure her self, but until it hurts her I no longer agree. The man can not define you but inspire you as an individual. We often try to be a mans refugee from his last women or be his refugee from his hard life. His sex toy or his listening ear. I disagree, we should go in wanting to be his peace. AFTER, he has learned to heal him self. Bring him peace after he has done all his forgiveness and is ready to be with someone who is commonly grounded. Do not go in being captain rescue, who is going to save you when you need to be rescued? To not be in this situation I would strongly suggest you pray strongly before getting deeply with any man and know that he is completely ready to start a genuine foundation of love with you. Intentions should be established very early or no expectations should be put on at all. Now this is not for the women who are having sex because they want too, That is completely up to you. But do not let sex be your get away from the real world, because I'll be the first to tell you after you get to your peak your personal issues will still be there pouring down. Do not carry this sad spirit around and transmit it to different men. Casual sex is only accepted when you're completely mentally ready. Most women between the ages of 17-21 are not mentally compatible to casually have sex with different men, no strings attached, and be completely fine with it. Even the older women who have sex with different men are not healed, while things may look very easy on the outside they may be fighting demons. I am a strong believer that their are greater aspects that we serve than a sex toy. Do not let your temple be open for the world. You may need to do some mental healing.
Apart of me believes that this is why I am choosing to remain a virgin. For years I was not mentally ready to have sex with any one because I didn't love myself. People don't understand how important self love is when having sex or being in a relationship. You can not expect someone to love and respect your body when you do not even show yourself that same respect. I was always conservative and I knew I was one of a kind. As a young girl I had this attitude of being one of a kind. While in high school, everyone made it seem like being in a sexual relationship was a necessity. WRONG, move at your own pace. (Most of them regret giving it up to a young noodle head.)If you're practicing abstinence, find peace with in that. If you're in a relationship with a guy and you feel like you all are just having sex and he isn't feeding your spirit. VOICE this to him and I'm sure he will understand. If he can not understand that sex isn't the only thing that satisfies your body and that you are more than that, He is a young boy. Drop him sis, he has got some growing up to do.
There are so many different things I could say about this conversation but the biggest point I want to make is to put your self first and to be a strong women.
Pussy is POWERRRRRRRRR
* Picture stolen from @EccentricDanny , Not mine :) *
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